There aren’t many women who don’t like doggy-style sex. OK, so it’s not like getting down to real intimacy with your partner. And as you well know, you don’t even face your partner in this position. Neither is it a relaxing type of sex. It can cause your arms and knees to get sore doing it. But if you do it correctly, it can be incredible and hugely satisfying!
The author of Neuroloveology, Ava Cadell says that “You can get the deepest penetration possible in this position, and you can also reach the G-spot.”
Are there ways to increase your pleasure during doggy style sex?
You bet there are! To begin with, without the pressure of your partner staring into your eyes, it makes it easier for you to orgasm. You might also love the feeling of being dominated by your partner. After all, it is a bit of a foray into BDSM or kinky sex.
How do you do standard doggy-style?
Well, it’s right there in the name. This position also starts with penetration from behind. The girl will get down on all fours and face away from the guy. This position is for all genders and people. We just mention girl and guy to make it easier and quicker to grasp the moves. The guy at the girl’s butt end will either enter her from behind. He will be either standing or kneeling. He might be the one doing most of the lifting and thrusting. But she can also take things up a notch or two by bouncing and wiggling against his penis.
But there are things you can do to make it really even hotter, so we’ve got 15 exciting ideas for you – here we go:
- It’s a versatile position for G-spot stimulation and anal sex: With this rear entry, the girl will definitely experience deeper penetration as well as get her G-spot stimulated. If you are into anal sex, then you get even deeper penetration, allowing you to experience an anal orgasm as well. When you thrust in this way, you will be moving your hips a lot. Using a wedge pillow to support yourself under your stomach takes off some of the pressure and allows more space for penetration.
- Penetration might feel so deep that it feels too intense or uncomfortable. You can ask your partners not to penetrate too deeply. He should rather make shallower-type movements. Then you can enjoy the stimulation of your G-spot.
- Rather than your guy thrusting from behind: You can take control from the front. By thrusting backward onto their penis, you are the one controlling the speed and depth.
- You can switch up the position so as not to get such direct access to your cervix or sphincter: This could be achieved by simply moving your knees closer together and positioning your arms closer to your knees. Or you could arch your back to control the movement.
- What if the penetration isn’t deep enough?: Perhaps you feel like you are not getting enough stimulation. Then you can try and get closer. What do we mean by this? Grab a sex strap or a towel and let your partner wrap it around you [1]. These can help keep your butt elevated during penetration. Your lower body will be relieved to have the pressure taken off it with these, particularly your knees.
- Try and lean right down: Do this by extending your arms out in front of you.
- You can also try propping yourself up on your elbows: You will see how this movement opens up your anal or vaginal canal so your partner can have an unobstructed path for penetration.
- You can try spreading your knees further apart: You might find it a bit more difficult to balance with your legs apart. But then you can reposition your hands or you can place a pillow under your lower stomach. This will keep you supported.
- Yes, you can. What the girl can do is raise her hips up higher by kneeling and pressing against a wall for extra support. The guy can also be on his knees to help close the gap.
- The girl can lie on her stomach. Think here of the missionary position. Instead of lying on her back, the girl is lying on her stomach. Or the guy can kneel while the girl lies flat out with her hips raised slightly and with her thighs resting in his lap. Remember the props like pillows for instance. Either of you can raise your hips higher just by making use of pillows or cushions.
- If you have found doggy-style a bit too uncomfortable for your liking, but you really want to experience it again, there are things you can do to alleviate the discomfort. You can try pillows under your knees. This will help to distribute the weight evenly. Stack pillows and blankets on even surfaces to rest on whenever you feel your joints are taking the strain.
- Make the most of your environment: If your hands and knees don’t like this treatment, you can move this sex position out of the bedroom. Try any edge of a table or a counter in another part of the house (as long as it’s your house!).
- around and play with your genitals. Or you can simply take matters into your own hands and add lubes. That will up the game. The guy can further use his hands to stimulate her further. He can stimulate her nipples while tugging at her hair, or nibbling her other body parts.
- There are plenty of toys to try as well: What about some anal beads to add to the heat. What about a cock ring? A cock ring can do wonders for anal sex as well? A full-on body experience with exciting toys such as feather ticklers, toys, and nipple clamps can help anybody reach an orgasm.
- You can do this position in front of a bathroom or bedroom mirrors. There you will be able to make eye contact with each other and watch your naked bodies moving and intertwining from other angles. Try roughing things up a bit with a bit of light spanking, perhaps some handcuffs, or whips? You could also try switching your sex moves from vaginal to anal entry. Don’t try switching from anal sex to vaginal entry though – that can cause infections [2].
Conclusion
For you and your partner, increasing the fun and pleasure that can be had with doggy-style sex is the most important thing. You both want to be on the same page with some fun, giggling, and exploration for good times. If you find that some of these techniques are not for you, do other things.
These aren’t must-do positions – they are just a lot of fun, meant to enhance your sexual fun with each other. Remember to talk about your likes and dislikes with your partners and take it from there. If you do, you will find yourself on the same page, doing stuff that enhances your relationship and the good times. Woof Woof!
